放手/ Let go

放手，不等于不关心，只是我不能代替别人做事。 Let go, does not mean I does not care, but it is just I can't replace others to do their work. 放手，不等于从此不管，而是明白我不该控制他人。 Let go, does not mean from now on I'm not concern, rather I'm clear that I should not control that person. 放手，就是不要提供所有答案，让别人从结果中学习。 Let go, precisely means does not want to possess an answer, permit others to learn from the outcome. 放手，就是承认无能为力，因为结果如何不在于我。 Let go, precisely means admit helpless, because no matter what's the result, it does not lie in me. 放手，就是不再试图改变或责备他人，因我只能改变自己。 Let go, precisely means no longer wants to attempt or blame that person, cause I can only change myself. 放手，就是关心而非操心。 Let go, precisely means I care instead of worrying. 放手，就是不要替别人补救，只是表示支持。 Let go, precisely means does not want to substitute others' remedies, merely to show support. 放手，就是不要批评，让对方保有尊严。 Let go, precisely means does not want to criticize, to permit the opposite to retain the dignity. 放手，就是不要操纵结果，让别人自行决定。 Let go, precisely means do not want to control the outcome, let others voluntarily decide. 放手，就是不要过分保护，让别人面对现实。 Let go, precisely means do not want to protect excessively, let others face the reality. 放手，就是不要否定，只是接纳。 Let go, precisely means do not deny, only admits. 放手，就是不要唠叨、叱责和争辩，而是反思己过予以改正。 Let go, precisely means do not nag, blame & argue, but is rather reconsideration of oneself'. 放手，就是不强求凡事照自己的意思，而是接受现状，珍惜每一刻。 Let go, precisely means does not demand everything according to own needs, but is rather to accept current situation, appreciate every moment. 放手，就是不再批评或勉强别人，而是努力成为自己理想中的人。 Let go, precisely means no longer criticizes or force others, but rather strive hard to become the ideal person you are. 當手中抓住一件東西時， 你就只能擁有這件東西， 而如果你願意放手， 就有機會選擇別的。

我爱你，与你无关

一本好书，一段好句子： ' 给你的，可能已经足够好了，但是你不爱； 你爱的，上苍或许也无能为力。 于是，生命便有了许许多多的无奈。 这无奈便是：我爱你，与你无关。 在fb发现某个朋友分享的好东西～～～真的很有意思～～～

推荐韩曲...^^

最近爱上了韩剧里的歌曲～～～哪几首也是你爱听的呢？

仁顯皇后的男人 - 現在去見你지금 만나러 갑니다



仁顯王后的男人 只有一個- Young Jae (4Men)



Love Rain - Because It's You (Tiffany SNSD)



Jessica (제시카) & Krystal (크리스탈) - Butterfly [To The Beautiful You]



[Sunny & Luna] It's Me



[J-Min] Stand Up 일어나 (To The Beautiful You)



[Super Junior KRY] Sky



擁抱太陽的月亮（捧日之月）讓時光倒流（시간을 거슬러）



白智英 - 過了很久한참 지나서 (Rooftop Prince 옥탑방 왕세자)屋塔房王世子

我的歌声里 - 曲婉婷

我的歌声里
没有一点点防备，也没有一丝顾虑
你就这样出现在我的世界里，带给我惊喜，情不自己
可是你偏又这样，在我不知不觉中
悄悄的消失，从我的世界里，没有音讯，剩下的只是回忆
你存在，我深深的脑海里，我的梦里，我的心里，我的歌声里
你存在，我深深的脑海里，我的梦里，我的心里，
还记得我们曾经，肩并肩一起走过，那段繁华巷口
尽管你我是陌生人，是过路人，但彼此还是感觉到了对方的
一个眼神，一个心跳....
一种意想不到的快乐，好像是
一场梦境，命中注定
世界之大为何我们相遇
难道是缘分
难道是天意...

认识她是从这首歌开始，无论听多少次依然喜欢这首歌～～～
也许跟我的故事有关系，所以才那么喜欢～～～
你也喜欢这首歌吗？

Wanting(曲婉婷)《Hideaway》

You don't ask much, but when you do
你從不多問，但你問起時
It's always sincere and true
總是那麼真誠。
You don't talk much, but when you do
你從不多說，但你說的時候
It's rarely about you, but I can still learn something new
雖然很少與你有關，但我總能學到新的東西。
You know I'm gonna love you all the way
你知道我一直都愛你
Though-these three little words I never heard you say
雖然我從未聽過你說那三個字
I'm ready when you are
我已準備聽你說
It's not too late to start
這開始並不算太晚
I never wanna be apart
我從不想被分開
But we are, without love
儘管分離，但愛仍然相連
I know you're ready yes you are
對，我知道你準備好了
Because the red is in your heart
因為你我心血相連
I know you'll never be too far away
我知道你一直都離我不遠
Because I'm your baby you're my hide away
因為我是你的寶貝，而你深藏在我心底
You don't argue, but when you do
你不喜歡爭論，但你議論時
You always have good reasons to
總有好的理由
You don't break down, but the day you did
你一直很健康，但那天你病倒了
My heart dropped to the ground
我的心破碎在了地上
So I stood there, and cried along
所以我站在那，一直哭

You know it's gonna take a lot to push me away
你知道付出再多也不能將我推離
But time is running out I need to hear you say .
但是時間也所剩無幾我需要聽你說

another nice song from wanting~~~wao...^^